Tammy's Haunting

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Wil writes,
Jim, I wish we had a bit more information like the history of the house Tammy lives in or even items that she owns. Even need to know about her faith in her religion if she is religous. She needs to get some of the history about the house /or property where she lives. The answer could probably be found there, information about who(what, when,etc...) had happened before on the property in the past. She may need to get out of that house period , and get rid of the bed set(or even some other furniture she owns) that she sleeps on. She needs to see a priest(at a church) or a monk(at a Buddhist Temple). she needs to explain her situation to them and have them pray for her or do a ceremony of prayer for her. Talking to a medium( a pyschic) might even be of some help. Send a pyschic person to investigate the home. She needs to carry a Bible or keep one in the room with her, she needs to read it too. Maybe even get a cross to wear around her kneck or hang one up on the wall in the bed room. But I got a feeling the ghost is probably attached to the house or location. Or that it knows that she is not strong enough mentally(psychic enough) to put up a barrier against it. Faith in a religion has a lot to do with that and so does the person's personality. But all in all I believe she needs to get out of the house, leave old furnature that was given to here, and leave the bed set!!! Hopefully the ghost will not follow her. I'll pray for her and ask others to pray for her.

Catherine writes,
I too have experienced what you are. It is so terrible, the feelings you are left with; the fear, the shame, the horror of it all. I wish I could give you the advice you need. For me, I had to move. For my own sanity and that of my children. I loved my house too, but not what was in it. Please be careful. I will tell you this, unexpected noise seems to make it stop during an episode. A sneeze, a light click, anything that broke the "tension" does that make sense to you? "Tension is probably not the right word, but I am lacking for another one. My prayers go with you.

Deborah writes,
I'm very familair with Marie's type of haunting having had a poltergeist in my house when I was growing up. It annoyed us with the same stunts she complains about. Please understand I know what I'm talking about when I tell you how we removed this spirit from out home. The procedure is so simple. Remember, you have more power than these spirits do. Stand in the middle of your house and in an authoritative voice COMMAND the spirit with these words," In the name of Jesus Christ I command all evil spirits to leave this house".

Andrea writes
I have endured years of haunting when I was growing up but nothing like this. Tammy needs to tell the entity that it needs to leave. That this is her house now and that it needs to leave her alone. She must show that she is bigger than it is and that she is not afraid of it. The entity is feeding off of her fear for it. Then she will need to have her house blessed by a priest. If this does not stop the haunting, she needs to move. She may love her house but she needs to love her sanity first.

Joan writes
Hello Mr. Jim, hello everyone. I don’t know if I am right, but first of all, I ‘d suggest, Tammy shoud speak to a psychiatrist. No offence, I don’t mean she is mad, but the human mind is very powerful and can indeed “make feel” things that aren’t there. If the doctor says she is fine, then, she should consider talking to a priest. I am Christian Orthodox, I don’t know what religion she is, but anyway, all the representatives of the “good powers” in the universe can help in such cases. Otherwise, I too would advice moving out or perhaps rebuilt the house if possible in another location in the space where it is in. I am not trying to make propaganda, about my religion, but Christian Orthodox people, put holly water in the foundation of any house they build. (it’s a small ceremony whith a priest and some blessings told) It doesn’t sound a bad idea to do likewise if she chooses to rebuild the house. I hope the best for her and her family. Bear whises to all. Joan

Vernon writes,

You have a Jezebel spirit!! If you want to talk more let me know!! Sexual spirits love to be a big pain in the butt!! They love you!! They Hate you!! Bipolar crap going on!! The best thing you can do is go to church and get saved and have a pastor come over and pray the spirits out of your body and house!! God Bless!!

Jaime writes,

I've had to help exorcise a perverted entity before that was bothering a dear friend of mine. I did it with salt, sage, a white unused candle, holy water, and a lot of strong faith. Salt is great to line around your house by sprinkling it in every door and window that leads outside the home. This supposedly works good for keeping pests out as well, but I don't know about that. I burned a bit of sage in an incense burner and had a friend carry it all through the house while my other friend (a devout catholic, she also retrieved the holy water)) recited prayers, blessing the rooms. I carried the holy water and sprinkled it as we went as a team through the entire house. We spent twice as much time in the bedroom, since that was where more of the activity was occurring. But this was the most important part: we all sat in a circle holding hands and lit the white candle in the middle. Then we all closed our eyes while my catholic friend recited more prayers. We all kept our eyes closed the entire time, which I think was what helped us stay strong enough to concentrate our efforts on ridding this horrid thing.. As the time was passing and my friends' recital was becoming more intense, I started hearing whispers, and I know they were not earthly. About the same time I'm realizing this, another friend says "Are you guys laughing? I hear laughing!" "No. I know." I said " It's him, just ignore him and keep your eyes closed and try to recite along.". Another friend was tickled briefly, and a different friend heard whispering as well. But we all did good in blocking him out and demanding that he left. Then all of the sudden, the light got really bright, there was a gust of wind, the candle went out, and we all went silent. It was safe again, and when I looked at my friends, we all had tears streaming down our faces. My friend has not been touched by the unseen since.

Wesley writes,

Hello,

The first thing is that this would possibly be known as an incubus. This will not go away without HELP from clergy. I am enclosing two links to two people who work together and with the Clergy to assist people with these types of extreme hauntings. They will drop whatever they have going to assist if there is children involved. From what I read, it seems that it was first after your little girl, and when you intervened, you inadvertently placed yourself in between it and your child. So instead of coming after your child, it now comes after you, because you got between it and its original target, you are made to suffer instead. All I can say, is use the links to get the help, Pray for the protection of GOD to keep you and your child safe and in his holy light, and ask GOD to send his angels to watch over you and your child.
John Zaffis

http://www.johnzaffis.com/

Denise Jones

http://www.paranormalhelp.com/

Crystal writes,
Well it sounds to me like Tammy is unfortunately dealing with what is called an Incubus,
which is a a demon that sexually attacks females in their sleep. Their is also a demon called Succubus, which attacks men in their sleep. A common thread with the victims of these nasty haunting/attacks is that the victim usually in an emotionally weak state in there life such as divorce, the death of a loved one, or maybe just depressed. The stronger the persons becomes emotionally the less often the attacks will occur. Weakness is like a magnet with an Incubus! Of course as with any type of demonic, contacting the church or a real good demonologyst, or both I think would be key. I hope this helps Tammy or anyone else who reads it.

Teri writes,
Hi Tammy, I am so very sorry you are experiencing this! I have only my instinct and what's in my heart to share with you. I hope it helps. It sounds like you have some benevolent spirits in the house offering protection to you. But it sounds also like you have a separate and very malevolent entity that may not be a spirit of a departed individual. It could be a very evil energy. If you are of Christian faith, then it's imperative that you pray and ask Jesus to blanket you and your children and your home with His love and power. Have someone you trust pray with you and your children. Trust that He has done so after you ask Him. Ask for his protection, guidance and security. Tell the entity that it is bound and rendered powerless in the name of Jesus. Whether or not you are a Christian, it is vital that you stand strong against this entity for yourself and your children. Do NOT give it a place. I believe it is relying on your fear to give it power over you. Fear is a doorway. Throw away your fear, and get angry. Stand against it, trusting God to back you and protect you and your children and home. Tell it that it has no power over you and that you will NOT accept it's presence there any longer. Take back what power it has had over you in the past, and tell it that you know that it is nothing. That you know it is powerless without the power that you allow it to have. And that you take back that power forever. I suggest you bring in a priest to bless the house and possibly exorcise it, and bring in family and loved ones that can surround you and your home with love, peace, support and light during the blessing. It's possible that someone at sometime opened a doorway and allowed a malevolent spirit to reside there. You have to send it back and close the door. That is YOUR home now, and this evil is not being given leave to stay there. Tell it it MUST go, that there is no place for it there.
Please let us know via the Ghost Study website what you are doing and what helps. I am praying for you and your family! Teri

George writes,
Hey, I understand you have two spirits here. Believe me, this sounds easier than said, but you must gather strength. Next time the negative spirit comes. you yell, you say, "GET OUT OF MY HOME NOW!! YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT TO INVADE MY HOME, INVADE ME, AND BOTHER MY CHILDREN." To gather this strength, Think of what you need to fight for. Fight for your Daughter, Your own personal self, Your home, The comforting man,(for he maybe being bothered by this negative spirit as well). I Believe you can do it, no matter how damaged you are. Do not be broken, you can control this, you can fight, and you can win. I believe in you.

Jason writes,
It seems that fear is a great component in the story of Tammy's haunting. Fear is a potent thing, especially in those who are "open" to the influences of spiritual influence. Tammy should be careful to exercise discretion when reporting these matters to authorities, those who disbelieve will believe schizophrenia and the role it plays on excessive dopamine and imagination are responsible. Despite the fact that similar experiences can be had from this phenomena, I do not believe this is the case here. One of the problems with fear is that it can have so many varieties (or permutations) which we need to be receptive to in order to acknowledge (or confess). One permutation of fear which is sometimes very difficult to diagnose is the "fear of jealousy."
So, Tammy should consider for example; does she have a fear that a/the/this entity is jealous that she is able to refrain/engage in sexual practices? Furthermore, sexual assailment is the epitomy of CONTROL of the human body, it being the deepest reaching manifestation of that another can PENETRATE within us/another... So, Tammy should consider for example; does she have a fear that a/the/this entity is jealous of her own possession of her own body in general? If this line of reasoning proves to be of use then I am happy to receive further correspondence accordingly.

Peter writes,

It seems to me that Tammy and some respondents are women living on their own. Spiritual forces are affecting their lives in drastic ways daytime, night time and sleep. I have personally encountered spirits with various strengths and powers. Some seem to be weak and easily dismissed. Others are powerful negative entities that are only driven forth with spiritual assistance. The atmosphere can become so dark that it seems that your body is moving through treacle and your words are slowed and unable to be uttered. I believe that the solution to dealing with these spirits comes from the authority that you claim. I believe that you need to believe in the power of the creator and the power he/she has given you. I hate to single out any particular religion but I find that as a Christian, I can draw upon the power that Jesus Christ had over Demons to defeat them and drive them forth. These experiences are special to me and I don't claim that it is not applicable to other religions/faiths. I have had times that they have taken acception to my interference and attacked me back. I depend not on my power but in the name of "Jesus Christ" they must obey. Then it is not you that do the work, but the work is his who commanded the spirits in the first place. Your belief in the power of his name is what powers your ability. There is little power that we have ourselves. We must reclaim our lives and live in the power with which god originally created us. Most have lost this knowledge and power but it is yours if you just take up your spiritual sword. I don't want to be a seen as a Christian fanatic as I'm certainly not. I belong to a church where even the existance of angels and biblical miracles are considered contriversial. So I can suggest taking charge of your home and those who come there (including some friends who visit). Also be aware of your own desires as they may make you more vulnerable to attack. You are the spiritual head of your family and you need to take care of them and protect them. Be aware of the power of the living over the dead. You are superior, you have the power of the body and phyical mind. They are disembodied entities without the power of choice as you have. They have made their choice to be bound to the earth and their primal instincts. You are created in God's image and therefore share some small part in God's creative spirit. Be encouraged and strong and drive them for in the name of the creator of all things, they are subject even to him. And when you drive them out don't glory in the power you have for it is not yours. It is from him who created the whole magnificent universe. For God want us to live happy lives free from oppression and possesion. Be empowered and believe, takeup your sword and shield and stand firm against the powers of darkness. If you put up a resistance they will flee from you as there are many other easier targets. Banish them from your home and command them not to return. Take this advice in good faith and I hope that I've not offended anyone with other religious beliefs. ~ Peter B

M. Lee writes,
This is concerning Tammy’s haunting. I am not affiliated with any societies, clubs or organizations. I have been researching and investigating the paranormal for over 35 years and yours is a rather unusual case in respect to the fact the entity actually becomes physical on a very personal level. Arm yourself with some simple research at the local level. Speak to the librarian or local public figures such as the Sheriff or policemen and the local clergy. You must keep the guise of your research on a level of general curiosity. People respond more openly and candidly if you avoid the mention of hauntings and such. Be very careful of the tone of your voice and the nature of your questions. Do you know any other history of you location? Do any of the elder people in your community know the history of any individual or family that would stand out or be remembered for any particular behaviors at, in or near your location other than the Hills? Are you able to verify the death and circumstances of Mr. Hill? Is he buried locally? Inquire about other folks in the area, casually. Perhaps someone that folks would gossip about in time gone by. Consider members of your own family also. Have you inherited any items (furniture, paintings, sometimes something as simple as old bottles or jewelry, rugs, toys etc )? Have you made any purchases of any antique items lately or perhaps sometime before the haunting? Are you a single parent? How old are your children? Often a poltergeist or entity will attach itself to the energy of children or teenagers, but this has gone beyond any simple poltergeist activity by its very nature. A psychic would be a tremendous help for you if you are able to find one of true talent ( the test is to do your research first, then see if the medium can match any of the facts). A member of the clergy would also help. There is no quick fix for hauntings of this nature – I don’t believe you will find an easy answer. Seriously consider moving, but under NO circumstance are you to provoke this antagonist (no name calling, no challenges to show itself etc.as this may create a more intense manifestation). You may want to try a radio in your room at night tuned in to a talk show or something of that nature with the volume low enough for you to hear in your room, but not in the rest of the house, or a TV. Get a low intensity night light for the darker areas of your house and bed room. Entertain company as much as possible including friends that may want a weekend visit. See if they mention any disturbance and the details of such, if any. I do agree with Catherine about sudden, unexpected noises being a possible deterrent. Perhaps a sound activated light, radio or TV (the “ clapper” sounds silly, but may be practical in this situation). In all, I hope you find the peace that you deserve and that this entity will pass to the other side. Sincerely and respectfully, M. Lee

Michelle writes,
I went through something similar, except not as aggressive, as well been molested as a child. There are many things you can do. First, I know you mentioned you love your house, but I would suggest trying to move, but he may follow you(which happened to me)Second, he may be doing this to you because he thinks he can. Tell him enough is enough, rape is more about control than sex, and if you put up a fight he may stop. Keep in mind you may also make him upset, and be prepared to stand your ground if he does. Don't give him the satisfaction of being in control of you. He'll try to scare you and make you think he will kill you, but think about it, why would he? He would lose you as his sex toy. Third, excorcism. You may not need to go to the Vatican, there are many preachers or spiritual people who will be happy to help you out. I hope my suggestions will be of use to you.

Sorry but what I will say may sadden you, but I think Mr. Hill is the same entity that is doing this. This is something alot of emotional abusers do, one minute they are your shining knight, the next they are your worst nightmare.

Melissa writes,
Hi Jim, Another suggestion would be to use a sage smudge stick and bless every room in the house, saying a cleansing prayer. I wonder if asking Mr. Hill’s ghost to help this spirit to cross over, then bless the house with holy water. On Echo Bodine’s web page has a section for a prayer group of people who will do healing prayers for 30 days. The results can be amazing! Melissa Clarke

Jude writes,

I have to say I agree with Deborah. I come from a culture that believes that we share our space with those who have gone before us, and to varying degrees, we each sense them in different ways. But as we are "the living", this is our domain, and as such, whether living of not, we decide on the kind of energy we allow into our space. We each have the means within ourselves to control this. With regard to Tammy's haunting, as hard as this may be to understand, I believe Tammy has created conditions that allow this energy to pervade her space, and one of the most debilitating things we can do (and Tammy has done, from what she writes) is to fear this energy. Whether we are dealing with a living person or an entity, when we fear, in effect, we accept the situation as is while we are giving them power over us. If we were exploited or abused in this way by a living person, we would not only take precautions to stop its continuation, we would get appropriate help in identifying how we let this type of person into our lives, and build on our life skills to better protect ourselves to avoid similar experiences in the future. Only Tammy can say whether she needs to leave her home to heal. A spiritualist group or church may be able to counsel Tammy, or someone from another cultural group may be able to advise on strategies that empower Tammy to take control. Tammy needs to know that the answer is inside herself. Tammy, we believe that nothing can hurt us when we have strategies in place to protect ourselves. The good news is, there is an answer out there for you. You just have to find the right one for you. I pray for your safe-keeping, as well as your family.

Jaime writes,
Is it possible that the 2 spirits are actually the same person? one day he is mean and aggressive the other he is sweet and comforting, maybe certain things set him off and he acts out. maybe that's is the way he really was when he was alive. jamie
JIM's COMMENTS: This is the second time this has been brought up and it's an excellent point.

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TAMMY'S HAUNTING..!

Tammy's Haunting can be very sexual and Mean. She's asking the viewers of Ghoststudy for help. Do you have some well thought out ideas or experiences to share that may help Tammy ?
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TAMMY'S HAUNTING..!

Tammy's Haunting can be very sexual and Mean. She's asking the viewers of Ghoststudy for help. Do you have some well thought out ideas or experiences to share that may help Tammy ? .

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Tammy's Haunting can be very sexual and Mean. She's asking the viewers of Ghoststudy for help. Do you have some well thought out ideas or experiences to share that may help Tammy ?
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This picture is added for effect and not an actual picture from Tammy

The most logical responses will receive Free Membership to: PURPLEGATORS.COM
Three (3) Memberships will be awarded.