Marie has a Haunting
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Every once in a while we ask the viewers to share ideas that have helped them to rid the ghosts in their home or office Or even ideas that they have heard about that worked for others. We know there's some very clever ideas out there and that's what Marie could use right now. She is being haunting on a daily basis and would like to ask you, Ghoststudy Viewers for help.


Posted Sep 4, 2009
 


     
 


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Here is a portion of Marie's first letter to Ghoststudy:
Things are 'unsettled' around here, and the activity only accelerates in the Fall. Sometimes I'm not up for it, as it gets exhausting - the lack of sleep, etc. Please, I want this supernatural presence to LEAVE.

We then asked "why Fall?" and also asked for details about the haunting
She replied: About the Fall connection, I didn't figure that out until a few years ago. I'd gone to see my doctor because I was a mess - lack of sleep, etc. She said "You know, you come here every Fall and say the same thing.", so it got me to thinking....it's true. My family is sensitive to spiritual happenings, so I'd always considered it a plight that we have to suffer.....but in this house, things pick up steam every Fall, and continue till a wee bit past Christmas. Mostly it's a presence, or presences that are felt. Last year my niece from CA was staying w/ me, and it was so validating! She's very no-nonsense and logical, but she felt and heard what I did.
Finally!


Examples:
Lights turn on, or off.
Stations on the radio change randomly.
Clocks change the time.
A woman's voice saying "Now!"
A man sneezing, burping, or snorting up snot - loudly!
Someone grabs your foot and shakes it when you're in bed.
The blankets that cover you begin to move.
The bed shakes.
It feels like someone sits down on the bed.
Pounding on a door that isn't there.
My niece saw a girl sitting in her room - on a chair that isn't there...

That's the gist of it, but my main trouble is - How do I get rid of it?! (Them?)
I've blessed the house w/ holy water, and last year tried burning sage...  Advice?


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Submitted by: Penny Shinn
The first thing that comes to my mind regarding Marie's case is ~ I wonder if she has had any Paranormal/Ghost groups in her house to try to communicate with this spirit or spirits? I have had experience as being haunted as well as being a ghost "hunter". I personally think trying to communicate with the spirits can be helpful. It sounds like she has more than one: as she mentions a man, woman and child in the examples of what has occured in her home. There also has to be a reason why the haunting escalates in the Fall months. I think that Marie and her family need to try to research her house and property and try to figure out who these people may be and why they are still bound to Earth. I believe that once she can establish some sort of communication and/or understanding about what is going on she may be able to cleanse her home. And of course there are always cases in which nothing can be done to remove the spirits and in this case Marie may need to decide if she can learn to live with her unwanted house guests or she may need to move out of her home.
 

Submitted by: Valerie Snyder
In reading the comments & happenings that Marie had said regarding her home, to me it sounds more like the spirits want recognition of their presence more than just being annoying or frightening,  There's a connection to the fall & activity that could be explained as maybe the time they passed, or, as simple as, with any farm house that is the time of year when the house would "normally" bustle with energy.  She stated that her and her family are sensitive, my suggestion is to sit and talk with them.  They could be confused, angry, scared etc.  It would be best to have a tape recorder going to pick up EVP's.  This may answer a lot of her questions.  She could then tell them to go to the light, where they belong.  If they still refuse, then she could lay down ground rules that she/they can coexist with.  It is her house, she must empower herself with that knowledge, while remembering they are people too (just without bodies).  It is possible to "live" together peacefully.  I don't feel any evil, like I said before, they just trying to get attention.


Submitted by: Whitney M.
Reading the comments and such, it's conclusive that Marie's home might have residual and intelligent haunting. Research on the history of the home and property is advised to wise up about the past owners and any on location deaths. As far as the Fall season increasing the activity, that could be due to the time of death, the usual activity of the home, or it could possibly be the outside temperature and the over all weather. All can effect the intensity of a haunting. It's all about the energy. It's also a good idea to get a paranormal investigation team to check the house, especially for any detectable and traceable EMFs, such as uncovered wiring and pipes. High EMF readings from uncovered wires and pipes can cause hallucinations, uneasy feelings, creepy feelings, and so on.  A proper blessing from a catholic priest, sage burning, or any other form of cleansing or blessing would possibly work. Priests can also exorcise the home as an extreme measure. Putting your foot down and making ground rules for a coexistence is a possibility, but no guarantees the spirits will abide by the rules. If all else fails, it's safe to say that moving would be a good idea.
 

Submitted by: Wesley Norfolk
My first thought is that the spirits have a message to pass on, or have/had something that was or is in the house, which they want you to pass on to living relatives.  A message maybe? Usually if a spirit is trying  to get your attention, they have something to pass on to their living relatives. Do some research on the property. Find out who the people were that lived in the house, when they died, what the cause of death was. You may find or have found some old items in the house when you moved in, and might have saved them somewhere. If you do your research, I am sure you will find the answers you need, and be able to put both the spirits and you at peace.

 

Submitted by: Janna Secord
Hi Jim:  It is so good that everyone here is trying to help Marie….I guess she lives in the house full time and has a family as well. This all makes for a real challenge.  Sounds like she has lived there for a few years at least.  My husband and I were left a house after his mother and father passed away, it was paid for and just right for us so we decided to move in.  But first we had to have it cleaned and painted and move all the stuff out.  We hired a young couple that were friends of our daughters, they also needed a place to live, so for painting and cleaning and packing we let them live there rent free for as long as they needed.  Well they never knew the story of how my husbands father killed himself in that little house.  But eventually they said they had to move because there was something in the house terrorizing them, it would whoose through their bodies and talk to them while they slept…that day they brought over a coffee maker they had been using and said it was weird and creepy.  Ok well as I was telling my husband what she had said I heard a glass in the kitchen like crack and break, like exactly cracked in half and each side fell over on the counter, it was a shot glass, one his father had given us, his father was a terrible alcoholic and died while intoxicated by his own hand, a .22 revolver.  The next morning when I came out to the kitchen to get ready to leave for work, there was a lone .22 shell set up on our counter, very strange, I thought my husband must have put it there, only not sure why.  That evening I ask him about it, he said he had never seen it before.  Now as confusing as this all is, it happened at our old house, as if the kids had brought some spirit over to our house with that coffee maker.  When we went over to the little house to see how it looked, just opening the front door your hair would stand on end, but not being one to be run off, I had a disposable camera on hand and took pics of the empty house, I got all kinds of things on the pics that looked like lightning, always 3 orbs and one of the dog looking at shadow presence, also all the doors would close behind you.   Now I know this all means nothing, but the house felt oppressive, like heavy.  So one day my husband went over to the house, sat in the middle of the floor and talked to who ever was there, to get out that this was our house now, and that we were moving in and had better not bother us, as we would not stand for it……we moved in and the mood is light and the house seems fine, except once in a while I am awakened in the night by the sound of a gun firing, just once, very loud, my husband never seems to hear it….a small price to pay for no mortgage.


Submitted by: John M.
In looking at the picture of your home, it looks like an old farm house in a rural setting.
NOTE: the house photo on this page is not Marie's house. Do you notice a specific time of day when the events seem to happen more? Maybe you should keep a log of times, locations, and look for a pattern. Reason I ask is I found a very similar event in Wisconsin a few years ago. The events seems to occur more in fall around sunset and sunrise. A brief result of our investigations were as
follows: the entity we dealt with was a previous farmer who owned and actively worked the property. We clearly sensed his distress about getting the crops harvested in fall. It was obvious fall harvest was a big stress in life that still bothers him after death. This potentially may be the same "Why fall" reason you experience. The farmers spirit was
most mischievous in the pre dawn hours. We captured him call the living "Lazy no goods". What we found appeased this restless soul is now the father of the house gets up in the pre dawn, like most farmers do, to do his exercise routine.  The events no longer occur. I think in your case, you need to look time of day patterns and try to
capture more EVP as your spirits sound to be vocal. Some of the events you describe seem sort of poltergeist ish. Is there maybe a teenage child living in the house with you? If so, we need to properly categorize which are poltergeist and what are a result of a residual haunt. I would also suggest trying to find some investigators to visit this fall when the activity increases. I have no reason to believe that you can not find peace in your home.


Submitted by: Rebecca S. Locher
I am sending my response to Marie's ghost dilemma.  I haven't read all of the responses that are posted.  But, I watch Ghost Hunters and every paranormal show I can get my eyes on.  What I have learned watching these shows is, they ask the ghosts to leave if they don't want them there.  They tell them they are not alive and they need go to the other side and be at peace.  Sometimes they do and sometimes they won't leave.  In Marie's case - it doesn't seem like she or her family are being harmed by these paranormal presences, which is good.  Either they can accept and possibly look forward to their Casper type visitors every Fall or demand that they
go to the attic or somewhere else and stay there or just leave them alone if they are going to stay.  Usually ghosts do listen.  Getting experts in the paranormal field such as TAPS could be an option too to help rid of the ghosts or just to investigate what is happening.  Usually TAPS does investigate the history of the home and area around it to explain some of the occurrences happening. I use to live in an old farm house too and I and my family had a few odd experiences with other presences so I understand Marie's concerns.  We moved out and one of the ghosts did find us two residences later.  Quite intriguing and interesting.  These ghosts may also sense her agitation with them and will continue to pull their pranks because they find it rather amusing.  Or as one of the comments I read, they may have a message for Marie too.  It will take some investigation to understand what and why this is happening in her home.  I highly suggest a Paranormal Team to investigate and help calm these restless spirits down.   I wish Marie the best of luck in maintaining a sense of normalcy in her household.
 


Submitted by: 
Rozlyn Reynolds Karp
"ghosts" and which can be heard, seen and sensed by persons who are empathic and have a strong sixth sense, and sometimes the physics of this energy is strong enough that persons who normally have no sensitivity also receive information via the five senses.  In fact it seems that these spirits have been drawn to Marie. This is a classic multiple dimensions of time issue where retained spirit energies are attached to the building.  An event likely occurred in the fall which resulted in severe energetic changes to the house, emotional trauma and or shocking experiences, to those present in a previous time and they now are unable/unwilling to leave the energetic field in the house. It's my feeling that they are trying to convey information about this event which caught the residents completely by surprise - and in which they experienced tremendous stress (and possibly perished). They are definitely trying to convey information. I also would suggest either a visit by a psychic (medium), who is capable of hearing, seeing and sensing the energies present, communicating with them and working to resolve some of the emotions left in that dimensional field which are now being transmitted into the current time, along with paranormal investigators and some photographic, EVP and EMF work in the house. It is always helpful to remember that no matter what the energies present are or want, it is important to remain in a "bubble" of protection when speaking, sensing or dealing with any retained energies as these multiple dimensional fields are "stacked" and connect to others in which there could offer opportunities for more unpleasant encounters, even though it doesn't seem that is occurring here. Energetic balancing would be helpful for the current residents to neutralize the "attraction" and resolution for the spirits to facilitate their ability to release.
 

Submitted by: Elle (Ectoplazzum)
The fact that the activity picks up every fall may be due to a few factors.  Perhaps the people whose spirits remain in the home passed at that time of year.  Perhaps they spent the summer working outdoors in the fields and weren't in the house very much until the fall when the harvest was over, and when fall comes, they then resume their regular indoor activities.  Maybe Marie herself does certain activities in the fall in the house that the spirits find appealing, and this goads them into action.  Maybe it reminds them of things they liked to do when they were alive and they're just trying to be part of the action again in any way they can.  Halloween is said to be the night of the year when the veil between the world is thinnest, so it could also be that the activity picks up in the fall because the veil is working toward getting thinner, making it easier for the spirits to interact than at other times of the year.  Most paranormal events take place at night, in the absence of natural light, so perhaps the fact that the days are so much shorter and it gets dark so much earlier in the fall has something to do with it.  On December 21, just a couple of days before Christmas, it's the shortest day of the year.  After that, the days start to get longer again, so maybe that's why the activity ceases a little while after Christmas.
 
Take charge, Marie, and take your home back.  You need to tell the spirits in no uncertain terms that YOU are the one with the pulse, YOU are the one who belongs in this world, and that they are no longer a part of this world and need to move on.  Let them know that you will no longer tolerate their antics, and that you will do whatever is necessary, including calling in a clergyman, to send them on their way.  It could be that they don't know they're dead.  This happens a lot more often than you might think, and once you let the ghosts know that they are no longer living and need to move on, they do.  Be firm, but don't be angry.  You want to be in charge, but remember, anger is a negative emotion.  If there are entities in your home already, they can bring in other, more difficult to deal with, possibly non-human entities, and these entities are drawn like moths to a flame to negative emotions.  So keep your emotions on the positive side.  Don't be afraid, either.  These entities have been in your home for years and have not harmed you, so there's no need to be afraid of them.  Fear is also a negative emotion, and one off which negative entities feed, so you don't ever want to show fear lest it attracts other, not-so-nice entities.
Smudging with sage works, but you've got to be sure to get EVERYWHERE with the smoke, otherwise you might not get rid of your unwanted visitors.  You've got to get in every corner, every closet, do every window, every door.  It's not an easy task, and chances are the reason it did not work when you last tried it was because there were places you missed.  The best thing to do is to use a large, wide feather to direct the smoke into the corners and places that are hard to reach, because it's quite possible for a ghost to simply find a place where the smoke didn't get to in order to hole up for a while until it's time for another appearance.  There are many sites available on the Internet that give explicit instructions for smudging, so if you  want to try that again, research a couple of them to see what techniques have been most successful and then try those.

Since you have already had an unsuccessful attempt with sage, my best advice would be to use prayer along with holy water.  Find some type of natural thing (a brush-like flower or plant works well, look for something like a corn tassel) to dip into the holy water to sprinkle it.  Put the holy water in a bowl and dip the plant into it,  and as you walk from room to room, use the plant to flick the holy water around the room.  As you do this, recite the Lord's Prayer and/or the 23rd Psalm.  Tell the entities that they no longer belong in this world and that, in the name of Jesus Christ, they need to move on to the next world.  If you feel uncomfortable doing this yourself, contact a local clergyman to do it for you.  Believe me, they will NOT think you are crazy.  I have done this myself in the past and found that just about every clergyman I talked to about the situation was MORE than willing to help and offered to come out and do a complete house blessing for me, and not one of them even attempted to make me feel like I was imagining things. 
In the event a house blessing by a clergyman doesn't do the trick, I would advocate calling in a local paranormal research group to investigate the house to determine just what type(s) of spirits are responsible.  Residual hauntings do not respond to blessings or anything else, because there is no spirit involved TO respond.  Residual hauntings are basically tape recordings of events that happened, so expecting a residual haunting to respond to a house blessing would be like expecting someone on television to answer you when you say something to them.  From the events you described,  however, it sounds more like you do have an intelligent haunting going on, at least on the part of SOME of the entities involved, like the one that grabs your foot and the one who shakes the bed.  The girl sitting on the non-existent chair, the snorting, snotting man, and the slamming non-existent door could be residual OR intelligent, depending on whether or not you are able to elicit some type of response from an attempted contact with them.
 
Again, I would try the clergyman house blessing.  In the event you still have activity afterward, I would contact a local paranormal research group to try to ascertain what type of entity(ies) you are dealing with, and perhaps they will be able to help you banish them if it comes to that.  Good luck!


Submitted by: No name given
My advice is simple. Get night lights, 4 watts is fine and put them in every dark room in your house, including your bedrooms. Never shut them off. Then take a flash light and shine it, during the day, into every shadowed corner, under every bed and in every closet. What you have aren't ghosts but something else that come to bug you. Don't ask me why this works but it does. I have even had to make a game of it with my daughter, when she was younger, because I didn't want her to be afraid of what is the spectral equivalent of ants at a picnic. These are shadowy pests, nothing more, and I have dealt with them my whole life until I figured out how to get rid of them. They love to make mischief but are otherwise harmless. 


Submitted by: Catherine // Ectomist

The answer is very simple. Take 3 brand new shiny pennies and place them in a row across your front door jam on the floor right up against it. In a position that they can stay there forever. Open the door and say loudly to the house: "Pennies on the floor, spirits out the door." Do this three times in the morning and in the evening for 3 days. Leave the pennies where they are. I promise you will notice a difference.


Submitted by:
Darryl
This could very well be a residual and an intelligent haunting due to the fact that the entities make themselves known strongly during the fall time, plus the fact that they can make themselves known clearly to others. My advice to Marie would be to call in some professionals that can dowse your house and communicate with them through the rods. I have dowsed with rods numerous times and it has proved to be effective. The professional can ask questions to the spirit with simple yes or no answers. Eventually you will find out who these spirits are and if they can be helped to cross into the light.  Prayer is also your strongest weapon against them. Say the Lord's Prayer for them and tell them it is time to cross over. Do not be afraid, for they can not hurt you. They may be reaching out for help and want to make themselves known.
 
     

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